Being able to communicate with yourself gives you the advantage of self-inspired insight. It allows you to know who you are, love who you are, and show up for who you are. This benefits you and your whole world.

Being able to communicate with your partner gives you the ability to negotiate your needs and build intimacy with your partner. It allows you to better understand their needs too. This helps nourish your relationship and while that's good enough on it' own, having a strong relationship with good communication is also good for your personal wellbeing. 

On a Twin Flame level, the value of communication is even bigger. Your Twin Flame will mirror you, so if you are lacking in your communication with yourself or your approach to communication with others is out of balance, they will reflect that directly. This may mean that they aren’t communicating with us, or their communication keeps ending in the same negative pattern. Or perhaps they are shut down from their own feelings, and they’ll talk to you but never about their own experiences. They're present, but they're not really letting you in. 

With almost all things Twin Flames, there is an internal element and an external element. 

When you're trying to improve communication with you and your Twin Flame, you're going to want to first start with the internal element. 

How are you at communicating with yourself? What is your mental world like lately? 

Once you build that up, which is what our next module focuses on, then you can move that journey to the external element. 

How are you at communicating with others? What is the conversation like with your Twin Flame lately?

It's not going to be enough to just talk to your Twin Flame, you have to talk to yourself too, but talking to yourself isn't the end all be all either. To coax that internal shift outward, good communication skills with others will help you take your soul level shifts and anchor them into reality.

Lesson Activity

Answer the following journal question about the importance of communication.